Some of the things that annoy you about your partner or spouse, you once loved very much. The process from loving it to hating it is usually unconscious and involves a re-framing or re-labeling. You fell in love with her attention-to-detail, but ten years later her “perfectionism” drives you up the wall. You fell in love with his peaceful nature, but 20 years in, you are fed up with how…
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